Your Sincere Advice, Please


Secured admission to study a course that was somehow related to my career. Four years and I was done with it as the 2nd best graduating student in my unit.

My four years at the university was greeted with unexplainable relationships of ladies who had one or two problems academically.
Now am currently waiting for my NYSC and still had this last girl who is currently facing almost the same problem with the others I have deserted or who probably have deserted me.

I need your sincere advice, please.

The very first girl I met was Clara by name. I met her on 2GO and she lied to me that she was in her finals. When I secured admission at the university, I met my 2go girlfriend and we were in a fantastic relationship. Got to know she was just a diploma student who had lied to me.
I kept mute and pretended nothing was wrong. We spent almost 3 months together during the long ASUU strike that lasted almost 6 months in Nigeria.
We finally parted ways when she could no longer bear the pain of seeing me as a student when she has not had her name written at the School’s database as a bonafide student.

The second I met was Chidera.
We dated for sometimes and we parted ways. She left the institution without my notifications. When I inquired, I released she had 6 carryovers and she could not cope.
How I wish she had told me this before… Maybe, she would have changed her negative decision(s).

The third girl I met followed the same way. She was Cynthia by name.
We feel in love and we were both living happily.
She left school because she was caught in examination malpractice related offenses.
I was so so bitter within me.

I asked myself
“God why me?”

Why should all the girls I love toll same?

The fourth one was Chika by name.
She left school after seven years for a course of five years. She left school without having a certificate.

In all of these, am very heart broken to the core.

Why should the lovely icons I fell in love with leave my life because of academic challenges?

This fifth one is now the one am still currently with. She is Rume by name.
After several months of being together, I just released she is on extension. She will be coming back for a second extension. She is not having the mind to come and finish the extension and probably have her certificate.
I have encouraged her to face it with all the boldness she could summon.
I don’t really know if upon resumption, she will do this.

Why should all of them choose to tell me at the 11th hour or why do I usually find out very late about their academic challenges?

Why should all of them be facing academic challenges?

In all of the girls, this one is the only one that has gotten the love and courage to still call, text and visit me despite the fact she is now aware that am fully aware of her situation and circumstance.

She seem to be crying too much about her predicament daily.

Should I still desert this one?

I really need your sincere advice, please.

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14 thoughts on “Your Sincere Advice, Please

  1. You see you weren’t close enough to each one of them. The communication is limited that was why you ended up leaving them at the end.

    Now that you have that of this last girl, it’s time to give utmost support and encouragement to her. Let your words pierce into her heart.

    Let her see the benefit of her going for the second extension and you have to help and guide her throughout so she won’t lose focus along the way.

    You should open her eyes to it and let her see the positive side of it

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